Kathleen's Lil Corner

I am so tried of picking up the newspaper or looking at the news to find so many of our young children that are murder, raped, or abandon. why do we have children in the first place ? Children are to be loved not abused and misused. They did not ask to come here in the first place we brought them here. I am asking you to care for your children. Encourage them when times are rough. Laugh with them when they are sad. take them out when things are really bad. Smile at them everyday and they will show you the love that you give to them. Love them, hug them, kiss them  a little kindness goes a long way. Just remember that children are people too.

It is so beautiful to see people fall in love and vow their undying love for each other. They get married and all that will change. It is so amazing how the same person you thought, you  could not live without, you now hate the sight of them. How do you hurt the one you love?  One thing we need to do  stop looking for a reason to get out of the marriage and find a reason to stay. The hardest thing to do is to live with someone else. The vow says for better or worst, then how come we run in the worst of times, that is when your partner needs you the most. Learn to draw on each others strength, instead of focusing on their weakness. We all have something we do that is not perfect.  Each of us has one life to live, so live it to the fullest and learn to love your partner for the good and the bad. If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say nothing at all. Remember why you got married in the first place. For there is a thin line between love and hate.

There is no greater love than you loving yourself. We as people sometimes look for other people to do only what we can for our selves. No one appreciate you better than you. Even if you have to talk to yourself to encourage yourself by all means do so. Remember no one is going to love you, like you do. You are the most sexiest person walking this earth!

Live each day like it is your last. we so often take for granted things that we should appreciate like Husbands love your wives and wives love your husband. let’s put the family back together and remember what the true meaning  of love is, love is all about the family. there is no greater love than the love of the family. So, let’s keep loving each other.

The hardest thing in the world is to admit ;when your love relationship is over. You would never thought  the person you once loved, would treat you this way. Now it has happen, and you don’t know what to do. The life you once planned is over. Well, today is the day for a new start, seek some counsel if you have too. But dry those tears, pick yourself up, and move on with your life. His lost, or her lost, is someone else’s gain. You may find the grass greener on the other side.

I know some times it is difficult to say what  is on your mind;but honesty is always the best policy. Do not hold things back until they cause bitterness and anguish, it will only keep you upset.  Just remember to speak with love and compassion. you know it takes two to argue. please be the bigger person. Love is the source to all of life’s problems.

Picking up the pieces of your life is difficult, after an ugly separation or divorce. just know that God will give you the strength and courage you need to go on. As you go through the days of the pain, each day will get a little easier and a little brighter. you will begin to put your life back into perspective and order. God’s love and peace  will sustain you as you make the transformation. If  God brought you to it, he will bring you through it.

Our lives are so busy from day to day. But let’s not forget the most important people in our everyday lives. Please take a few  moments from your busy schedule this week and every week, just to say hello, how are you ? Remember a card, a phone call, and a email can brighten any one’s day. Let us be more attentive to the one we love. You know tomorrow is  never promised to any of us only what is in front of you today. So love somebody and hug somebody by keeping in touch.

What is the meaning of love? Does any body know? why are so many people  entering into relationships with a motive in mind? Love is pure and from the heart. So, why do we play games with people ‘s hearts  and emotions it can have a deadly effect!! Be honest with a person from the start and give them the option to stay or leave. Don’t let it be just a one sided  decision. E very one  is entitled  to their right to choose. If you are not in the relationship for the long haul; then don’t even start, it will save alot of heartache in the end.

As we begin a new holiday season,  its time for Thanksgiving.  I know  as the year draws to a close. we should look back on our lives to give thanks. Some of us have been through harder trails than others, but through our tears and laughter, joy and pain. Let’s just take time to lift our hands and thank God  for his love and kindness. Remember God has not forgotten you!!!!